Tuesday, December 26, 2023

My Family: Christmas 1967

 

My birthday was coming up and I thought it would be fun to post home movies of one of my childhood birthday parties on social media. However, I couldn't quite figure out what year it was because my birthday cake only had three candles on it and I was clearly seven-to-nine-years-old.

To give myself context, I backed up the home movies to Christmas footage shot right before my birthday. In the footage, I saw my great uncle Louis Ernst. He sadly died at young age in February 1968. That meant this had to be Christmas 1967. It obviously couldn't have been Christmas 1968!

Watching the Super 8mm footage, I couldn't help but be overwhelmed by the images of so many of my relatives who had passed away. Since so few people shot home movies during this period, I realized that this might be the only movie footage of some of these people during this time frame. I wanted to preserve it here on my blog. So, if you're a cousin from either side of my family, enjoy.

Here's a list of the people featured in the video who have passed away:

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Be sure to check out my memoir The Promise, or the Pros and Cons of Talking with God, published by TouchPoint Press. It is my true story of first faith and first love and how the two became almost fatally intertwined.



Here are some sample chapters of The Promise:

Chapter 7 - Mission Accomplished
Chapter 15 - Quarter To Midnight

Be sure to check out my novel Chapel Street. It tells the story of a young man straddling the line between sanity and madness while battling a demonic entity that has driven his family members to suicide for generations. It was inspired by an actual haunting my family experienced.

You can buy the Kindle and paperback at Amazon and the Nook, paperback and hardcover at Barnes & Noble.


Learn more about the book, click Here.

Watch the book trailer:

  

Listen to me read some chapters here:


Read about the true haunting that inspired the novel here:
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 1, An Introduction
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 2, The House
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 3, This Is Us
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 4, Arrival
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 5, Methodology
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 6, Clara's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 7, Clara's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 8, My Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 9, My Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 10, My Tale, Pt. 3
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 11, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 12, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 13, John's Tale, Pt. 1 
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 14, John's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 15, Come Inside!
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 16, Marion's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 17, Marion's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 18, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 19, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 20, Lisa's Tale
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 21, Recap, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 22, Recap, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 23, Recap, Pt. 3

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Friday, December 8, 2023

Grave Tales #41: Regina Marie LaBanz Milewski

I am an avid genealogist. The past is very important to me. I spend a lot of time in cemeteries photographing tombstones to upload on website the FindAGrave.

I enjoy recognizing long dead people by putting memorials to them online. However, every once and a while something grabs me about a specific grave. It could be the name, or the dates or a ceramic photo. In those cases, I feel compelled to dig a little deeper. That's what this series of blogs is about: The tales behind those graves. Some of my subjects will be heroes. Some will be villains. Some will be victims. And some will linger in between, like most of us. However, don't be surprised if the tales are inherently tragic. These are grave tales. They all end in death.

My friend Kathleen Glancy Milstein asked me to research Regina Marie LaBanz Milewski. She went down the rabbit hole called Findagrave and discovered Regina and her sons. She knew it was a tale of madness and murder and she wanted more details. She thought I would be interested since Regina and her family lived at 6009 Hamilton Avenue and I live in Hamilton -- not too far from Hamilton Avenue itself. However, the Mileskis lived at the far end of Hamilton Avenue in Fullerton, but I still investigated and found the most tragic of my grave tales.

Regina Marie LaBanz Milewski*

I quickly found Regina on Findagrave.com. Her memorial was very complete. There were photos of the grave and the occupant herself. She looked happy enough. She was born on 13 October 1931 and died on 18 August 1984. I looked Regina up at Newspapers.com in August of 1984. I couldn't find anything. Not even a simple death notice. Obviously, there was nothing tragic about her death or there would have been a story. So I turned to her children who were connected to her on Findagrave. Seven-year-old Richard Michael Milewski died on 3 November 1964. His four-year-old brother Charles Brian Milewski died on the same day. That was the tragedy.

I looked the boys up on 3 November 1964. Nothing. I looked them up on 4 November 1964. I found their death notice:

Suddenly....  Always a bad word to see in a death notice. But what happened? If you only searched using the Milewski name, you would have never found the next story. I only found it tucked away in the back because I went through that issue of the paper page by page. Here's what happened.

The Baltimore Sun (Baltimore, Maryland), 4 Nov 1964, Wed:


MOTHER HELD
IN 2 DEATHS
----
Sons Found Strangled In
Fullerton Area Home
-----

     Two small children were strangled to death in their homes in the Fullerton area of Baltimore county yesterday and police arrested their 33-year-old mother, a former mental patient.
     County police at Fullerton said that a 7-year-old and his 4-year-old brother were found dead in a bed in their home.

"I've Done Something Terrible"

     The boys' father returned from work at the Martin Company's plant and was told by his wife, "I've done something terrible."
     She took him upstairs to where the bodies of the children lay.
     Police said the mother had been released on October 9 from Seton Psychiatric Institution on Reisterstown road.
     Police were called by neighbors after the father, in near-hysterics, had run to them.
     Dr. John Hyle, Baltimore county medical examiner, said the boys were killed around noon. The couple had no other children.

What a horrible crime. To me, the most sacred relationship between human beings is the one between a mother andher  minor children. Regina said she had done something terrible. That was a gross understatement. Those poor, innocent boys....

Richard Michael Milewski

Charles Brian Milewski

And, talk about understatement, look at the completely discrete newspaper story. At another time, this would have been a front page story with a screaming headline and loaded with all of the lurid details. This time the Baltimore Sun was unbelievably restrained, probably due to concern about the mental health of the family. They didn't even give Regina's name, or the names of the victims.

Despite the horrible nature of the crime, there seemed to be no rush to demonize Regina. Re-read the death notice. the victims are listed as the sons of Casimir and Regina Milewski. They included Regina! Trust me, as a genealogist, I have read hundreds of death notices and I have seen parents, spouses, siblings or children excluded for considerably less than the murder of the deceased.

This same attitude can be seen on the graves of the sons. Richard's grave is inscribed with the words: "Our First Son." Charles' grave is inscribed with the words: "Our Little Son." The plural of the word "our" includes Regina, the mother, in the grief. I might be incorrectly reading between the lines, but it appears that her husband Casimir was blaming the mental illness, not Regina herself, for the deaths.


There were no further stories about the deaths. No stories about an arraignment or sentencing, or eventual release. Nothing. However, there was an earlier story detailing Regina's marriage to Casimir.

Regina & Casimir Milewski

The Baltimore Sun (Baltimore, Maryland), 2 Oct 1955, Sun:

Milewski-Labanz
     The wedding of Miss Jean Labanz, daughter of Mrs. Clara R. Labanz, of 740 Melville avenue, to Mr. Casimir Milewski, son of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Milewski, of 4904 Pennington avenue, took place September 18.
     The ceremony was at St. Bernard's Church. A reception was held at Cameo Hall.
     Miss Nelva Labanz was the maid of honor for her sister. The bridesmaids were Miss Rita Labanz, another sister, and Mrs. Betty Butkus. Christine Matanoski was the flower girl.
     Mr. Eugene Milewski was best man for his brother. The ushers were Mr. Vincent Milewski, brother of the bridegroom, and Mr. Charles Wiseman. Walter Korzybski was the ring bearer,

The marriage did not survive the tragedy. Casimir would divorce Regina in June of 1966. That same year he would change his name to Christopher Charles Miller and leave Maryland. He would marry Edith Mae Parks on 12 December 1968. They would have two children. Christopher and Edith would later divorce and he would finally marry Jeanette Luker. He would die in Picayune, Mississippi on 4 May 2016.

Here's his obituary from his Findagrave memorial:

     Mass of Christian Burial for Christopher Charles Miller, age 88, of Picayune, MS, who passed away Tuesday, May 24, 2016 will be held Tuesday, May 31, 2016 at 11:00 am at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church.
     Visitation will be Tuesday, May 31, 2016 from 10:00 am until 11:00 am at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church.
     Burial will be in Southeast Louisiana Veterans Cemetery at 2:00 pm under the direction of McDonald Funeral Home.
     Father John Noone will officiate the service.
     Originally known as Casimir Milewski, Chris was born in Curtis Bay, Maryland on August 18, 1927. In 1945, he enlisted for four years in the U. S. Navy, training at the Bainbridge, MD and Gulfport, MS Naval Stations as Quartermaster/Navigator. After assisting the Bikini Operation he was assigned to the Navy's amphibian fleet. Upon service discharge, he attended and graduated from the Johns Hopkins University (Baltimore) with a degree in Civil Engineering. This led to a forty year employment with Lockheed-Martin as a Heat Shield Materials Engineer at their Baltimore, Denver, and New Orleans facilities.
     Mr. Miller was a devout member of St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church in Picayune and a faithful participant in it's Perpetual Adoration Program. On retirement, he also increased his attention on art (multi-medium painting), puzzles, and wood crafting.
     He was preceded in death by his parents, Vincent Milewski and Carrie Korzybski Milewski; sons, Richard M. Milewski, Charles B. Milewski, Joe Russell Jr.; daughter, Sandra K. Kinder; brother, Eugene P. Miles.
     Survivors include his wife, Jeanette Luker Miller; children, Christopher Paul Miller, Daniel Clayton Miller, Janet L. Richard, and James B. Russell; 10 grandchildren; numerous great grandchildren; brother, Vincent John Milewski; many nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, and loved ones.

I said there were no further newspaper stories concerning Regina and the crime. However, she was mentioned in the death notices of her family members.




Obviously, her family members continued to honor her as a member of their family despite her crime.

I have more questions than answers about this story. Was Regina incarcerated or institutionalized for this crime? Was she ever released? How did she die? But it seems that her family offered her some measure of mercy or forgiveness. Remember the inscription on her grave: "In Loving Memory." I'm sure she didn't write that herself. She was still loved....

Still, no amount of forgiveness could undo what happened and that is evident from the family plot. Beside Regina there is an empty grave between her and her two boys. That space was obviously intended for her husband, but he was no longer her husband and he was eventually buried hundreds of miles away. The family was broken forever. I only hope that they all found a way to rest in peace. Having just unexpectedly lost a eight-year-old granddaughter myself, I know peace will be hard to find. (Read about my granddaughter here: Emma Renee Schwalm)

Regina with Richard,
in happier days.

Remember, there is a story behind every grave. You never know what you're missing when you walk past one....

*All photographs of the people come from the family tree of Christopher Miller on Ancestry.com. Used without permission.

Grave Tales:

My novel Chapel Street is now available! You can buy the Kindle and paperback at Amazon and the Nook, paperback and hardcover at Barnes & NobleChapel Street is the tale of a young man battling a demonic entity that has driven members of his family to suicide for generations. It was inspired by an actual haunting. 


Learn more about the book, click Here.

Listen to me read some chapters here:


Read about the true haunting that inspired the novel here:

The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 1, An Introduction
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 2, The House
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 3, This Is Us
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 4, Arrival
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 5, Methodology
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 6, Clara's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 7, Clara's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 8, My Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 9, My Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 10, My Tale, Pt. 3
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 11, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 12, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 13, John's Tale, Pt. 1 
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 14, John's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 15, Come Inside!
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 16, Marion's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 17, Marion's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 18, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 19, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 20, Lisa's Tale
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 21, Recap, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 22, Recap, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 23, Recap, Pt. 3

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Wednesday, December 6, 2023

YKYMP: #208: Trance/#209: A Christmas Carol (1984)

Here's two more exciting ZOOM editions of the Yippee-Ki-Yay Mother Podcast, a lively discussion of the movies that sometimes devolves into a group therapy session.

In our India Cine-Maniacs episodes, Ralph, John and Drew watch the 2020 film Trance about a disillusioned motivational speaker. Is it worth watching? Check out the review and find out:

 

In our special holiday episode, John brings yet another version of Charles Dicken's A Christmas Carol to the table. How could I resist returning for this episode? This is a 1984 made for television version starring George C. Scott. How will it compare to the multitude of other versions? Watch our review and find out:

        

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Learn more about the book, click Here.

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Wednesday, November 15, 2023

First Five: West Rhodes

I am awfully quick to give advice about screenwriting in this blog. And some people actually accept it. The funny thing is that none of those people have ever read any of my scripts! They might have seen one of my films, but, with a finished film, it is difficult to say who contributed what. Therefore, to help people decide whether my writing advice is any good, I am posting some pages for your pleasure and perusal.

Inspired by the three-page challenges on the Scriptnotes podcast by John August and Craig Mazin, I have decided to post the opening of some of my scripts in a series of blogs. However, rather than three pages, I am going with five pages because I feel that will provide a more accurate appraisal of my writing and the stories. I am not posting the scripts of any of my produced films. That would be complicated legally since those scripts now belong to their respective production companies. Nor am I posting any script currently under option for the same reason. These scripts are either new or part of my back catalog. Some are ready to be pitched. Others need a little polishing. But you can read the first five pages now.

West Rhodes is the first script I wrote with my friend director Lee Bonner, who ultimately co-wrote and directed my first produced feature 21 Eyes. When I met Lee Bonner, he was a top commercial director and a budding director of episodic primetime dramas. He had also been an RCA recording artist with his band The Lafayettes. Their most famous song was Life's Too Short.  Here it is:

  

The band was more popular abroad than it was in the United States. The Beatles used to cover Lee's song Nobody But You during their days in the clubs. (Paul sang it.)  I remember reading an interview with Robert Plant where he mentioned another one of their recordings. I immediately called Lee and told him about it. Lee's response: "Who's Robert Plant?"

Lee had previously directed a low budget featured called Two For The Money, which was ultimately released by Troma as The Adventure of the Action Hunters, featuring a fabulous supporting performance by former Baltimore Colts great Artie Donovan. (Interesting, the leading lady of the film was named Sean Murphy -- not to be confused with yours truly.) The film was about a cocktail-loving man who lives on a boat on the Chesapeake who becomes entangled in a mystery and treasure hunt. Here's the trailer:

 

Not surprisingly, Lee wasn't satisfied with the release of the film. He was aiming a little higher than Troma. He wanted to try again and he already knew who the film was about: A carefree Maryland State water cop named West Rhodes who becomes entangled in a murder mystery. (Lee got the name was a newly-born nephew.*) He wanted and a co-writer, and that's where I came into the picture.

I had known Lee for years. He was the top commercial director in the Mid-Atlantic area and I was a boy producer at Smith Burke & Azzam, one of the top advertising agencies in the area at the time. When I left the agency and became a freelance film editor, Lee became one of my top clients. However, he didn't view me as a writer until my screenplays, The Long Drive, won the praise of Baltimore's own Academy Award winner Barry Levinson. Barry called me "a very good writer." That was all Lee needed to hear.

Lee invited me out for the day on his sailboat, along with producer David Butler. I'm not much of a drinker, but the first thing Lee did was make me am industrial-sized martini. Then he asked me to read his notes and thoughts for the story and character while he and David sailed the ship around the Chesapeake. I loved the idea and I said I would be happy to write it with him. During that trip, I also began my tradition of losing something overboard -- my glasses, my wallet, my phone, etc. -- every time I got on one of his boats.

I loved the final script, but, sadly, Lee decided that it wasn't viable as an independent film at the time because of the expense of shooting so much action on the water. Lee and I followed that script up with a few others. They tended to be mysteries that leaned heavily into characters and humor. That's my wheelhouse.

Hopefully one day we'll get it made.

Here's a brief synopsis:

Meet West Rhodes, marine police; his beat, the waterways surrounding the gold coast of Annapolis, a cop who gives warning tickets to girls so he can ask them on dates and confiscates beer from teenagers so he can drink it.

Then one day, West discovers the body of a man hung by the ankles with his head submerged in the Severn river, left there at mean low water to die a slow death on the incoming tide.

The case is assigned to detectives Burger and Frye, spare them the witticisms, they’ve suffered enough. Fate brought them to the department at the same time and no Lieutenant could resist pairing them as a team.

But West knows something they don’t know, a secret from his own past that links the victim to a previous crime. Soon West, conspiring with ex-girlfriend and local newshound Joey Bliss, finds himself up to his neck in multiple homicide, and a case that will change his life forever.

*BTW, the real West Rhodes, whose name inspired the character, has grown up and actually became a water cop!

Here are the first five pages:





I hope you enjoyed those first five pages. Here's the trailer for the film we made together:

  

You can read about the making of the film here:

21 Eyes, A History, Part 1
21 Eyes, A History, Part 2
21 Eyes, A History, Part 3
21 Eyes, A History, Part 4
21 Eyes, About That Nude Scene....

Here's the pilot of a travel series Lee produced, directed and starred in called Iron John Cruising about traveling on the Chesapeake Bay. It played on Maryland Public Television:

   

Here's Lee on our podcast discussing the film That Thing You Do, about a one-hit wonder band -- a subject which he knew every well.


My novel Chapel Street is now available! You can buy the Kindle and paperback at Amazon and the Nook, paperback and hardcover at Barnes & NobleChapel Street is the tale of a young man battling a demonic entity that has driven members of his family to suicide for generations. It was inspired by an actual haunting. 


Learn more about the book, click Here.

Listen to me read some chapters here:


Read about the true haunting that inspired the novel here:

The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 1, An Introduction
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 2, The House
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 3, This Is Us
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 4, Arrival
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 5, Methodology
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 6, Clara's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 7, Clara's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 8, My Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 9, My Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 10, My Tale, Pt. 3
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 11, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 12, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 13, John's Tale, Pt. 1 
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 14, John's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 15, Come Inside!
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 16, Marion's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 17, Marion's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 18, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 19, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 20, Lisa's Tale
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 21, Recap, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 22, Recap, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 23, Recap, Pt. 3

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Sunday, November 12, 2023

My Family: My Granddaugher Emma Renee Schwalm


I can't believe I'm writing a genealogical blog about someone who was supposed to outlive me by sixty years, but here I am....

On Friday, October 20, 2023, my wife Deborah and I lost our precious eight-year-old granddaughter Emma. Emma was a beautiful, intelligent and sweet girl. She was a wonderful sister to her older sister Claudia and her little brother Ian, and she was like a sister to her cousin Mara. We called them twin cousins. I always wondered what Emma would achieve in her life. She was bright, kind and independently minded, and not without a little playful mischief in her heart. She certainly had grandpa figured out. I would see her and Mara in pool whispering and looking at me. Then Emma would swim up to me with a smile and say, "Grandpa, can we have a snack?" The answer was always yes. I could never say no to her.

Here's one story that summed up our relationship. Early this summer, she had a sleepover at our house. Emma came over and sat beside me on the sofa and asked, "Grandpa, who do you love the most?" "Grandma," I answered. "Well, who loves you the most?" Emma continued. "Grandma," I replied. "No," she answered. "I do." (I'm not intimating that she loved me more than anyone else in her life -- only that she felt that she loved me more than anyone else in my life loved me!) About a month ago, I recounted that conversation to her. "You remember that?" she said quietly. "Of course, I do," I replied. "I'm going to remember it the rest of my life." And I will.

I always wondered what Emma would achieve in her life. Now I know. It was a short life, but she managed to bring love to everyone she knew. That's a great accomplishment. I will miss her everyday of my life. 



Here's my daughter Elizabeth's Facebook post about Emma's death:

On Friday October 20th at 11:48 am the world lost one of its most beautiful souls that has ever walked this earth. Emma was a perpetual source of light, positive energy and love, as anyone who was blessed enough to have met her already knows. I don't have the words to express the true blessing that was my daughter, or the loss I (we) feel as a family. All I can really express is that she made me truly happy to be a mom. Emma , you are sooo missed and soo completely loved by me, Claudia, Ian and all who knew you. I love you forever and you'll always be in my heart, my angel.

Emma's neighbors held a candlelight vigil for her.

Here's the official death notice from the funeral home:

Emma Renee Schwalm, age 8, sadly passed away on Friday, October 20, 2023. Born in York, PA, a beloved daughter of Elizabeth Fry of Parkville and Christopher Littlefield of Baltimore; cherished sister of Claudia and Ian Schwalm; loving granddaughter of Deborah Murphy and husband Sean of Baltimore, Robert Fry and wife Joanne of New Windsor, Roger Schwalm and wife Linda of Shippensburg, PA and the late Claudia Schwalm; dear niece of Erica Hicks of Kansas City, KS, Jason Kinnear and wife Carolyn of New Windsor, Jessica Garthley and husband Neil of Brick, NJ, Christine Fry and husband Josh Harmon of Cockeysville, Wesley Fry of New Windsor, Roger Schwalm of Savannah, GA, Scott Schwalm and wife Linda Tausin of Cincinnati, OH and Melissa Littlefield of Waynesboro, PA. Also survived by cousins, other relatives, classmates and friends. Emma will be lovingly missed.
     Family will receive friends on Thursday, November 2, 2023 from 5:00-8:00 PM in the family owned Parkview Funeral Home & Cremation Service, 7527 Harford Rd, Parkville.

Here's a memorial video I made for her. I think it captures her spirit:

 

Elizabeth wanted the memorial video made to the song Somewhere Over The Rainbow.  However, that was not Emma's favorite song. Her favorite song was Counting Stars by OneRepublic.  Here's a memorial video to that song. I hope you like it, Emma.

 

I don't know what we're going to do without our little Emma. Everything I do reminds me of her. Plus, she had offered to come to the nursing home when I got really old to watch horror movies with me. 

I'm going to miss her.

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Be sure to check out my memoir The Promise, or the Pros and Cons of Talking with God, published by TouchPoint Press. It is my true story of first faith and first love and how the two became almost fatally intertwined.



Here are some sample chapters of The Promise:

Chapter 7 - Mission Accomplished
Chapter 15 - Quarter To Midnight

Be sure to check out my novel Chapel Street. It tells the story of a young man straddling the line between sanity and madness while battling a demonic entity that has driven his family members to suicide for generations. It was inspired by an actual haunting my family experienced.

You can buy the Kindle and paperback at Amazon and the Nook, paperback and hardcover at Barnes & Noble.


Learn more about the book, click Here.

Watch the book trailer:

  

Listen to me read some chapters here:


Read about the true haunting that inspired the novel here:
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 1, An Introduction
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 2, The House
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 3, This Is Us
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 4, Arrival
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 5, Methodology
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 6, Clara's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 7, Clara's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 8, My Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 9, My Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 10, My Tale, Pt. 3
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 11, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 12, Natalia's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 13, John's Tale, Pt. 1 
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 14, John's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 15, Come Inside!
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 16, Marion's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 17, Marion's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 18, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 19, Jeanne's Tale, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 20, Lisa's Tale
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 21, Recap, Pt. 1
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 22, Recap, Pt. 2
The Haunting of 21 St. Helens Avenue, Part 23, Recap, Pt. 3

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